如何使我的数据网格加载速度超快？

I have to edit my last question to the one bellow as I have found out that the only way for me is to generate the grid using jQuery on ajax function success, I am able to generate the data in the grid but I am not able to figure out how to paginate them, I was trying to find out any useful tutorial to teach me A to Z how to filter the out put in to pages using pagination in a efficient way, All I found on the web was advertisements of data grid plugins or many useless pre-made static grids that won't be modified.

So I am wondering if is that it? Isn't there any A to Z data grid generate tutorial on the web? Is my the only way is to buy one of those made ones?

I would like to make the grid myself as the one attached,

What you see in attached is just a picture of what I want, it's not responsive.

Please help me,I am not a professional, learning all by myself. Thanks