在第二台服务器上验证

I have a webpage with a login and some function based on a userrole. On a second server I run a chat server with login and userrole too.

  • First server is an simple webhosting.
  • Second server is a rootserver with full privileges.

Now I like to use the same username, password and userrole for chat privileges.

  • My first idea was, to call a php script on first server with username and password and it return the state and userrole. But this is not secure enough.
  • Second idea was to open the MySQL-Server but the hosting doesn't allow this.

Or is the only secure waysynch the databases over a cronjob?

How can I manage this secure?