查询与多个join /存在与不同where子句的相同关系

here is my table

i want product_id that have both these conditions

 `f_id` = '4' and `value` in ('10', '11', '12', '13' )

and

 `f_id` = '10' and `value` in ('34')

which would be product_id : 11 here is my query

$products = Product::whereHas('ProductFilter' , function($q) use ($filter_groups){

        foreach($filter_groups as $k=>$v)
        $q->where('f_id' , $k )->whereIn( 'value' ,$v );

    })->get();

which will result in this query

select * from `products` where exists 

( 
  select * from `product_filters` where 
 `product_filters`.`product_id` = `products`.`id` and 
 `f_id` = '4' and `value` in ('10', '11', '12', '13' )   and 
 `f_id` = '10' and `value` in ('34')

)

but there is no relations between f_id and value and it wont return any result

basically what i want is this query

select * from `products` where exists 

( 
  select * from `product_filters` where 
 `product_filters`.`product_id` = `products`.`id` and 
 `f_id` = '4' and `value` in ('10', '11', '12', '13' )  

)
and exists 
( 
  select * from `product_filters` where 
 `product_filters`.`product_id` = `products`.`id` and 
 `f_id` = '10' and `value` in ('34')

)

$query = Product::where([]);
foreach($filter_groups as $k=>$v)
$query->whereHas('ProductFilter' , function($q) use ($k , $v ){
        $q->where('f_id' , $k )->whereIn( 'value' ,$v );
    })

$products = $query->get();

you should write other condition as subquery

select * from `products` where exists 

( 
  select * from `product_filters` where 
 `product_filters`.`product_id` = `products`.`id` and 
  (`f_id` = '4' and `value` in ('10', '11', '12', '13' ) ) and  `product_filters`.`product_id` in (select product_id from product_filters where `f_id` = '10' and `value` in ('34') )    
)