A类发送消息函数
void CMFCApplication2Dlg::GetBirthday() {
char* birthday = "7.17";
::SendMessage(CBirthdayDlg::hwnd,WM_MyMessage, 0, LPARAM(birthday));
}
B类触发消息的函数
CMFCApplication2Dlg *birthday=new CMFCApplication2Dlg();
birthday->GetBirthday();
http://blog.csdn.net/zhoxier/article/details/7475036
SendMessage主要使用来在对话框之间传递数据,消息等,看看你的消息有没有注册,然后响应消息函数