窗口中socket通信服务器向客户端发消息,客户端自动返回:繁忙,下面是客户端代码:

// 接收数据信息

    public void ReceiveMsg()
    {

        while (true)
        {

            try
            {

                byte[] date = new byte[1024];

                 int recv = socket.Receive(date);
                 string str = Encoding.UTF8.GetString(date,0,recv);
            }
            catch (SocketException ex)
            { 

            }
        }

    }


    public void listTest(Object o, EventArgs e, String str)
    {
        this.richTextBox1.Text = str;
    }

    //设置控件状态
    public void Status(Object o, EventArgs e)
    {
        lblStatus.Text = "连接成功.";
        button1.Enabled = false;
    }

    //回调(异步调用连接请求)
    private static void ConnectCallback(IAsyncResult er)
    {
        try
        {

            // 获取到异步操作信息
            Socket client = (Socket)er.AsyncState;
            UpdateStatus(new Form1(), new EventArgs());
            StateObjcet state = new StateObjcet();
            state.workSocket = client;

            client.BeginReceive(state.buffer, 0, StateObjcet.BufferSize, 0, new AsyncCallback(ReceiveCallback), state);

          //  Receive(client);
            // 结束挂起异步连接操作请求
            //client.EndConnect(er);


        }
        catch(Exception e) 
        { 
        MessageBox.Show(e.ToString());
        return;

        }

    }

    //异步发送信息
    /// <summary>
    /// 异步发送
    /// </summary>
    /// <param name="er"></param>
    private static void SendCallback(IAsyncResult er)
    {

        try
        {
            //获取异步对象异步操作信息
            Socket Client = (Socket)er.AsyncState;
            //挂起异步 发送请求
            int byteSend = Client.EndSend(er);

        }
        catch (Exception e)
        {
            MessageBox.Show(e.ToString());
        }
    }

///
///读取Socket 套接字
///
///
private static void Receive(Socket client)
{
try
{
StateObjcet state = new StateObjcet();
state.workSocket=client;

            client.BeginReceive(state.buffer,0,StateObjcet.BufferSize,0,new AsyncCallback(ReceiveCallback),state);

        }catch(Exception e)
        {
          MessageBox.Show(e.ToString());
        }

  }

///
/// 异步挂起
///
///
private static void ReceiveCallback(IAsyncResult er)
{
try
{
//异步操作获取用户定义信息
StateObjcet state = (StateObjcet)er.AsyncState;
Socket client = state.workSocket;

          //结束挂起异步读取
         int bytebuffer = client.EndReceive(er);
          if (bytebuffer > 0)
          {

              UpdateList(new Form1(), new EventArgs(), Encoding.ASCII.GetString(state.buffer, 0, bytebuffer));
              state.sb.Append(Encoding.ASCII.GetString(state.buffer, 0, bytebuffer));           
              client.BeginReceive(state.buffer, 0, StateObjcet.BufferSize, 0, new AsyncCallback(ReceiveCallback), state);

          }
          else
          {
              if (state.sb.Length > 1)
              {
                  response = state.sb.ToString();
              }
              receiveDone.Set();
              client.Close();
          }

      }
      catch (Exception e)
      {
          MessageBox.Show(e.ToString());
      }

  }


    private void button2_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
    {

        if (richTextBox2.Text.Trim() == "")
            return;
        else if (richTextBox2.Text.Trim().ToLower() == "clear()")
        {
            richTextBox1.Clear();
            richTextBox2.Text = ""; 
            return;
        }
        else if (Regex.IsMatch(richTextBox2.Text.Trim().ToLower(), @"^[zoom(]+[\d]+[)]$"))
            {
                string str = richTextBox2.Text.ToLower(); 
                int size = Convert.ToInt32(str.Substring(str.LastIndexOf('(') + 1, str.IndexOf(')') - str.LastIndexOf('(') - 1));
                richTextBox1.Font = new Font("宋体", size, FontStyle.Bold);
                return;
            }

        try
        {

            Byte[] bs;

            string user = null;             
            if (txtUser.Text.Trim() == "在此输入你的名字" || txtUser.Text.Trim() == "")        
            {                  
                user = "我";                
                bs = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(string.Format("对方说:({0})\r\n{1}\r\n", DateTime.Now.ToString(),richTextBox2.Text.Trim()));  
            }            
            else            
            {                 
                bs = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(string.Format("{0}说:({1})\r\n{2}\r\n", txtUser.Text.Trim(),DateTime.Now.ToString(),richTextBox2.Text.Trim()));          
                user = txtUser.Text.Trim();               
            }

            bs = System.Text.Encoding.UTF8.GetBytes(richTextBox2.Text); //发现UTF8可支持中文,就用之

            socket.BeginSend(bs, 0, bs.Length, 0, new AsyncCallback(SendCallback), socket);

            txt = string.Format("{0}说:({1})\r\n{2}\r\n", user, DateTime.Now.ToString(), richTextBox2.Text.Trim());      
            int tempLen = richTextBox1.Text.Length;          
            richTextBox1.AppendText(txt);              
            richTextBox1.Select(tempLen, txt.Length);         
            richTextBox1.SelectionFont = new Font("宋体", 10);         
            richTextBox1.SelectionColor = Color.Red;              
            richTextBox2.Clear();         
        }           
        catch(Exception ex)      
        { 
            MessageBox.Show("连接尚未建立!无法发送数据!" + ex.Message);
        }    
     }


    private void getlocalip(string myip)      //dw20150214
    {
        // 获取到本机IP


        //自动获取到本机电脑端口
        IP = IPAddress.Parse(txtIP.Text.Trim());
        int point = Convert.ToInt32(txtPoint.Text.Trim());
        endpoint = new IPEndPoint(IP, point);
    }

    private void Form1_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
    {
        getlocalip(GetServerIP().ToString());    //dw20150214

     //建立Socket       
     socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);

    }

    private void txtIP_TextChanged(object sender, EventArgs e)
    {

    }


    private void TheradScoket()
    {
        Thread TempThread;
        //开启接收线程    
        TempThread = new Thread(new ThreadStart(this.ToConnect));
        TempThread.IsBackground = true;//设置为后台线程    
        TempThread.Start();
        TempThread.Abort();//关闭线程   
        Socket client = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
        //关闭套接字    
        client.Close();


    }


    private void Form1_FormClosing(object sender, FormClosingEventArgs e)
    {
        TheradScoket();
       // socket.Close();

    }
    }        

}

http://blog.csdn.net/zdyueguanyun/article/details/51208227

 ** while (true)**
        {

            try
            {

                byte[] date = new byte[1024];

                 int recv = socket.Receive(date);
                 string str = Encoding.UTF8.GetString(date,0,recv);
            }
            catch (SocketException ex)
            { 

            }
        }

while(true)???
必然很繁忙

Socket是面向长连接的,不必while(true)