PHP中的复杂ajax

I am a bit stuck with my Ajax Filtering DropDown selection.

I have below selections and options:

Selection1 Option1: Male Option2: Female

Selection2 Option1: Guess Option2: H&M

Selection3 Option1: Watch (Guess,H&M) Option2: Shirt (Guess,H&M) Option3: Bikini (Guess,H&M)(only if Selection1 is Female) Option4: Accessories (H&M)

My problem is how to filter Selection3 when user select Female which will include Option3 in selection3 which is Bikini, while Selection 2 will also filter Selection 3 base on the brand.

I would make a listener for change on the selects

so for example:

jQuery('.select1').on('change',function(){
    $this = jQuery(this);
    if($this.val() === 2){ // 2 == female
       jQuery('.select3 option[value="4"]').show();
    }else{
       jQuery('.select3 option[value="4"]').hide();
    }
});

(this requires you to have it as value 4 (you can also change my item names ofc. select1, select3 etc.)